Update python-scikit-build to version 0.16.4 / rev 12 via SR 1044136
    
    https://build.opensuse.org/request/show/1044136
    by user bnavigator + dimstar_suse
    - Update to 0.16.4
      * This releases backports additions for Windows ARM
        cross-compiling via cibuildwheel from scikit-build-core 0.1.4.
      * Initial experimental support for Windows ARM cross-compile in
        #824 and #818
      * Replace mailing list with GitHub Discussions board in #823
      * Some CI updates in #811 and #812
    - Version 0.16.3
      * This release fixes logging issues using setuptools 65.6+
        affecting our tests. Pytest 7.2+ is now supported. setup.py
        <command> and setup_requires are deprecated, and tests are
        marked as such.
      * Fix typo in usage.rst in #795, thanks to @chohner.
      * Support pytest 7.2+ in #801.
      * Change warning filtering in #802.
      * Handle logging changes in setuptools 65.6+ in #807.
      * Add deprecated markers to some tests in #807.
      * Allow known warn