Moderation guideline for implementing the theory in real situations
B. Don't use threats.
A. Motivation problem - the member is not motivated to behave in acceptable manner - is a troll or otherwise enjoys being mean to people.
B. Ability problem - the member may be direct without "filters" and their conversation often comes off as offensive while they just state things the way they see them: http://www.mit.edu/~jcb/tact.html 3. If a member is disrespectful to the mods.
A. If you get into conflict yourself, someone is disrespectful to you as a moderator, trolling and challenging your authority - step back and ask for help, mention in the mods-team ML, and let 3rd party deal with it. 4. Be inclusive
A. Contents of our channels should not be disrespectful towards anyone, think about minorities, oppressed communities and gender identification (he/she, they/them).
C. A member being plain disrespectful on purpose... Mute them, see their reaction to moderation talk and act on it. 5. Ask other mods for assistance!
A. We are all one large team and our more experienced mods can help you in a difficult situation.